• Diagnosis

    Chemo Education

    After a deep sleep, I felt better this morning (sans the super puffy eyes!). Unexpected setbacks really suck. I thought we were over that part. But on the flip side, better to know now rather than later. The folks at Mayo are trying to get me in next week for the final biopsies. The lung biopsy is scheduled for the 7th at the moment, the first day of school for the kids. UGGGGGH. That’s just a bummer. But like Linds told me, it’s so I can be there next year. Hopefully, we can get the skin punch and node biopsy next week, then start chemo ASAP. And chemo, oh boy.…

  • Just Another Day

    An appointment on my “day off”

    Good thing I write these at the end of the day because I’ve been through ALL of the emotions. ? There were no planned appointments today, which I was feeling pretty excited about. Lindsay reminded me that I should schedule my dental appointment before chemo. Having a cleaning during chemo can lead to infections. Of course, I had an upcoming appointment…on the same morning as the port installation. So I called to reschedule and told the receptionist I know it’s a huge ask, but wondering if there’s any way they could fit me in before I start chemo in the next few weeks. She paused for a second, asked where…

  • Diagnosis

    Echo (echo echo)

    It’s finally Friday. Today’s appointment was at the hospital up here for an echocardiogram. It’s an ultrasound of the heart. The technician kept apologizing for how cold everything was (it IS cold!) but we joked that it’s the last thing I worry about! ? It was cool to watch my heart beat on the monitor. I asked a few questions about what she was looking at. She told me it was the best heart she’d seen all day. ? Got the “results” back – everything is normal! Good news headed into chemo. Mayo Appointments and Final Biopsies I’ve finally got the biopsies scheduled! And a special guest with be accompanying…

  • Just Another Day

    A Normal Saturday

    As I write this, we are still furiously cleaning the house for Auntie Windsay’s arrival (that’s how Mae says it). (I’m sure you all understand this!) It’s been nice to have something to be excited about! Makes you feel like maybe things can be normal. The kids have been chattering all day about where Linds gets to sleep (Mae said she’d move over so Linds could have room). They argue about Evelyn getting to fly on a plane to see Auntie Lindsay, and Mae keeps talking about the time we made gingerbread houses over video chat. The neighbor who lives on one side of us stopped to chat after Mae…

  • Just Another Day

    Holiday Weekend

    It’s been a good weekend! The kids got to stay up late to pick up Auntie Lindsay from the airport. We’ve been doing fun things with the kids so far. We trekked down to Rochester on Sunday morning for my pre-surgery COVID test – it was negative. Cuz we were super worried about that. I was actually nervous about the swab. It was not as bad as I imagined. The swab was tinier (here I was picturing a Q-tip). Instead of staying over in Rochester for part of the week, everyone came and we tried to find cool places to take the kids…butttttttttttttttt everything is closed. We stopped at French…

  • Just Another Day

    The Waiting Game

    I know Laura will write her own post about this, but since most of you will be in the same boat that I am – being on the waiting side – I thought I’d share my own experience from today. We’re here in Rochester at Mayo, which as Laura has said before is like its own city within the city. It’s pretty cool, but also overwhelming. It does help to have another person with you to navigate, especially if you’re anxious about what you’re doing here (which, if you’re here, you likely are). We arrived last night to be ready for all of today’s appointments. First up, the breast ultrasound.…

  • Diagnosis

    Biopsies Galore

    It’s been a loooooong day, unexpected but good. We were up early for a study ultrasound. They used not one but FOUR machines to do ultrasounds on my right breast. Pretty easy. But then they had me go right away to the lung biopsy. Now, this is where things got crazy. Took them a long time to call me in the prep room because a new appointment showed up on my Mayo calendar at 11 (this procedure started at 10). They also ended up calling the folks who were doing my axilla biopsy. Turns out that if I was under sedation for the lung biopsy procedure, they’d have to reschedule…

  • Just Another Day

    Positive Lymph Nodes

    Linds and I drove back home this afternoon from Mayo. The drive wasn’t too bad but I’m already annoyed with it. A stupid thing to complain about when I’ve got Mayo within driving distance. I spent most of my youth up and down that highway, and it reminds me too much of my childhood. Even college years (it was one of two ways to get to Winona). But, small price to pay. The internist at Mayo called me to say they’d gotten the results of the lymph nodes, which are positive, as they suspected. Nothing shocking here. Those will come into play during surgery. Still no results on the skin…

  • Just Another Day

    Port of Entry

    The &TLDR version is that the port is in, and Laura is recovering well! For those of you who enjoy reading the story version, we were up before six am (after being up way too late laughing at Zillow Goes Wild postings) to head over to Mercy Hospital for Laura’s port surgery. She learned on Wednesday that she wouldn’t be going under for surgery, just getting a local anesthesia, or conscious sedation. If you want to know all of the medical details, head over to the American Cancer Society, and check out the section on implanted ports. We left for the hospital at about 6:15, arriving before our scheduled 6:45…

  • Treatment

    The Port

    It’s been a rough few days of recovery. The nurse even told me I have a high pain tolerance and yet I was knocked on my ass for two days. I’m surprised they don’t give you pain meds. They tell you to take Tylenol…sorta works. Turns out there were TWO incisions for this port placement – one up by my collarbone, kinda makes hard to turn my neck. The other incision, lower, is a bit bigger. And then I’ve had to wait 48 hours to shower, so I’ve been feeling pretty greasy and gross. Had to maneuver around in the shower to make sure I didn’t get any water into…